Stress isn't the problem...
Stress is life.
For me war is with indifference.
In fact , if someone could tell me how to negotiate with indifference and I will then tell him how stress will become a simple game to be won or even the most fragile enemy to fight.
But what if your enemy doesn't care about your entire war and especially when you live with a person who has only one principle in his life: "indifference is an art if you master it you will succeed."
That person no longer even gives you the ability to defend yourself
you will search for stress and you will never find it...
Then you start to lose all energy the positive and the negative one.
And you begin little by little to perceive yourself transparent.
And little by little you also begin to forget your qualities, your happiness and the smell of flowers, then you look for what is bad in you and you become embarrassing to stimulate the anger of him since your kindness doesn't attract him.
But neither the good nor the bad way work with indifference.
Everything return to nothing.
You only find silence, a blank stare and a cold touch...no affect, no compliments, no gesture of being thankful or even angry.
And he throws you into his indifference system where you begin to lose your weapons so you think of borrowing his weapons from him hands since he doesn't care and you start imitating the aggressor and you get used to thinking indifference like him..to become without energy ... dead like him
You then lose both the war and the life while remaining alive...
A silent but aggressive death.
This is the moment when you become the best stress dealer.
Otherwise, you will buy it ( Stress) with your tears.. which will remind you every day that you are alive...full of sorrow, anxiety, fear, illness, suffering, pain,.... but above all life .
alive ( not all life )
sorry for this mistake 😞